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The Right Age for Dating

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Julie Chen spoke with Psychologist Dr. Jennifer Hartstein and Family Circle's Linda Fears about at what age teens should start dating.
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수진sujin (7 days ago)
15+ is alright
somebody X (13 days ago)
I'm 13 and I am dating a 19 year old.
Temple7 Dialectic (21 days ago)
My 13 year old is now trying to get permission to date. I am fine with them hanging out. But to emotionally invest himself in a girl at this age seems a little heavy.
Gabriel Thompson (28 days ago)
I think that you should wait until you can drive with your date
Random Acts (1 month ago)
Thank God!!!!!
Kylie Parker (2 months ago)
Who’s watching this in 2018?
Julie Rushing (2 months ago)
My mom let me date at 14. I lost my virginity at 15. I really regret this and wish I were older and stayed more true to myself, focusing on my dreams and goals instead of how boys made me feel. I think it is so sad how our childhood can be robbed from us with all of this sexual stimulus around us.
Joshua Harper (2 months ago)
One of the primary jobs as a parent is to ensure your child is protected and in a safe environment. As a former teenage boy I am simply not comfortable with the thought of my daughter being in a situation where it would involve just her and another boy. There are better ways to allow a kid to be social and get to know someone. Trusting someone’s intentions is one thing but trusting two unsupervised teenagers judgement is entirely another
r1reilly xsw (3 months ago)
any age as long as you arent kissing earlier than 7th grade, and not having any type of sex until AT LEAST 16
r1reilly xsw (3 months ago)
momster dot fucking com, what the actual fuck is that!!!!???
Midnight Escapade (3 months ago)
It's alright to date at an early age like 13 and above, as long as they are mature and responsible enough to manage one with their studies still being their top priority. The restriction on it would be intercourse, but it's alright to have a partner at that age. Relationships are for caring and loving someone and help them nourish and grow with you. This is just my opinion, so please don't take it all by heart.
Faktor F (3 months ago)
I don’t think so. I think that 13 or 14 is right for dating if u like the person a lot just to try it out
I’m already Tracer (3 months ago)
I’m dating at 10 yrs old
tøasty (3 months ago)
My parents always shipped me with a boy that they took care for my mom's friend I don't even like him -_- I like someone from my school but I'm too ugly tbh
Elayna Simonson (4 months ago)
Yall saying you cant date until a certain age: Im 13. I have a Boyfriend. We are just "kindergarten dating". (Holding hands, maybe kiss cheek". Ask ur parents kids
somebody X (13 days ago)
Oh please
breanna ferguson (4 months ago)
I think the right age is like 15
May Dawn Shepherd (4 months ago)
I'm 20 and I'm still not allowed to date, but it's alright.
I think 13+ is alright
Lunalia (4 months ago)
I think dating at 13 is the perfect age (in my opinion). When you are 13 you've just become a teenager. You will make a lot of mistakes, but I would rather make mistakes with dating now rather than later.
Peridot Meepmorp (1 month ago)
I think 13 or 14 even 12 if you are mature enough, know what your getting into and don’t do anything like kissing, just when you actually are ready yourself, I had a boyfriend at age 12, kinda weird but we had been best friends since age 5 and we were mature at our age and just cared for each other a lot and would only hold hands, rest our heads on each other’s shoulders and we hugged a couple of times, nothing like kissing or what a few other 12 year old couples did. I am 14 now and that boy moved 2 hours away at the end of grade six but we skype each other but just as friends I guess. There is a girl I really want to ask out but I am scared lol
CallMeNaeNae (2 months ago)
Lunalia 12 is also right, if you just hold hands, nothing inappropriate, hang out in my opinion
WWE Lover 4Life (5 months ago)
I have an committed relationship with me, myself, and food.
Humzah Amin (5 months ago)
I feel like 18 because kids these days are very immature .and if you feel that's old 16 but I feel like it won't last very long in their 20s
Destiny Simon (4 months ago)
Please tell my mother this😕😐
somebody X (13 days ago)
+Destiny Simon I feel really bad for you
somebody X (13 days ago)
+Amanda Ghannam R.I.P I started dating since 13 which I'm still in this age now
The unofficial Webster (1 month ago)
Destiny Simon exactly
Elayna Simonson (4 months ago)
Destiny Simon im so sorry 😞 maybe try at age 15? They might realize you are mature enough thats what happened with mine
Destiny Simon (4 months ago)
Elayna Simonson I tried everything and she said no.. no kisses, no hugs, not holding hands, no boyfriend/girlfriend stuff, no going out in groups, I can’t even go out with my friends🙄
ThecatassassinX (6 months ago)
im 13 and im dating and id say its good experience in the long run sure i dont know much but from what ive seen my borthers started dating at the same age 13 and after every single relationship they had after the next the next one lasted longer and longer so the experiences helped them
FearTheDogmaticTrooper (7 months ago)
So, I'm a girl, and I have a 'secret' girlfriend. My mom knows that I'm not straight, but I'm 13 and not supposed to date till I'm 14. What do I do?
Εxσdυιs (7 months ago)
:P it’s 2018
T_infinite_flight (8 months ago)
To “let your kids start”??? Your kids should be able to start when they want to! It’s part of growing up and your kids will know when. Unless your a overly protective “momster” (the worst type of mom) you would probably let your kids start whenever. There is no harm in dating at young ages such as 12 or 13.
Dearia Choice (8 months ago)
I’m 12 and I think I should start dating at 20 .
Meghan Conroy (4 months ago)
Dearia Choice bahhahahhhaha
unirainbow gamer (8 months ago)
For me 17
Ally Playz (9 months ago)
Personally, the best time to date is when you have a FUCKING JOB, because if you get pregnant and you don't have a job, you're fucked, especially if your parents kick you out.
griffin (9 months ago)
the red haired woman is extremely ignorant. 90% of people don’t just think about sex when they first meet a person and start dating
DaddyNiko Chan (5 months ago)
Some kids are in it for the nudes it's kinda funny tbh
Vinay Raghbeer (9 months ago)
Well too late I dated a lot of girl and rn am 14 and going to high school next month
Unicorn_Sha _Unicorn2006 (10 months ago)
I'm 12 and the right age for me to date is 16
Arionna rhome (10 months ago)
16 years old is a good age 🐣❤✨
Jub Jub (11 months ago)
Now i see why I can't date.... the whole sex deal? I'm asexual... my parents don't know... if they knew they would let me at 13😧
Pilots that Panic! - (11 months ago)
I have a girlfriend and I’m in the 6th grade (I’m under 13) and so far we only hug hah.
Morgan Collins (11 months ago)
Why I think: if ur not old enough to be legally home alone or if u don’t know your own puberty u shouldn’t date
insane_ fobfan (1 year ago)
As long as you’re being safe and stuff like that it shouldn’t be such a big deal
stella ok (3 months ago)
I know right
Kwadaja Munroe (11 months ago)
insane_ fobfan agreed
darkmonkey 1o1 (1 year ago)
Early 2000s people holding hands at age 12 is Savage. now 2018, 12 year olds are Kissing. Wow my generation is messed up.
Snowy (2 months ago)
How is it Savage not everything means savage
Lucy Gulden (3 months ago)
there's a kid who's 13 in my school and he lost his virginity with a 12 year old..honestly I was so shocked like I don't even...like...wow.
Sashsquatch 101 (3 months ago)
I agree. And it’s not even just kissing bro.......
AZHAR MIR Mir (1 year ago)
I m of 16 but no boyfriend..nd I think that we must complete our studies first nd then think about dating anyone.....According to me life can be happy without bf or gf if u have a good family.... if u agree with this then like my comment..☺
Abraham Eli (1 year ago)
Young people should date not when they are impressed by a man/woman, but when they feel and understand their need of being in a cross gender relationship. Parents just need to make sure that their children understand what they are doing; the implications of being in a cross gender relationship. Children mature differently. Some might need to start dating earlier than others even in the same home. Basically, by having a sincere communication with your child and understanding the struggles the child is going through; you can easily discern if the child is ready to date or not. For instance, a child who can't stop masturbating; can't stop thinking about the opposite gender; has troubles focusing for a good period of time, who begins under performing in school; who has lost the joy of teenage years even when they have every other thing they need shows strong signs of needing to be in a cross gender relationship. i will guess a realistic dating window can be (16-22) depending on personalities, values, cultures,...
Gabby LaJesse (1 year ago)
I’m 13(seventh grade) and I’m dating an 8th grader(14). I’ve liked him since the 2nd week of school. And he asked me out. I was so happy. And I know he likes me. Cause we are best friends. I honestly don’t know if I’m allowed to date or not. But I really like him.
hxppytexrs (2 months ago)
Gabby LaJesse I mean, do what you think is right!
Kwadaja Munroe (11 months ago)
I think you should go for it
ItzJuzUz (1 year ago)
I’ve been in a great committed relationship with my pet rock for 3 years now ;)
Soapie C (25 days ago)
Relatable
Wolvarina (5 months ago)
👏
Legend 27 (8 months ago)
ItzJuzUz same here
Scammer Hunters (8 months ago)
😂😂😂
Thomas TheCrackEngine (10 months ago)
ItzJuzUz same
Depression (1 year ago)
I think at age 13 when ever your ready after 13 go for it
Britany Cheung (1 year ago)
I would say 20+ would be the starting age to date
Hi (1 year ago)
I was 20 when I had my first kid I’m 26 now and have 3 kids so no way😂😂
The5thbandit Yep (1 year ago)
Wtf no way
Ben Draws Badly (1 year ago)
SirMLGTruely yeah holy shiz
Truely (1 year ago)
Britany Cheung that's a good age for marriage...
Angelina Gleicher (1 year ago)
this is the story of my little sister she met a boy named max when she was in 1st grade they always had crushes on each other by third grade they were best friends this summer she has seen him at summer camp they are going into 5th grade they say they are dating but they are basically just best friends so this goes to show that any age is appropriate to date as long as its not a physical relation ship it should not matter
MusicMonster (1 year ago)
mechh... i'm only 13 years old, i have girlfriend and i kissing and hugging my girlfriend :*
Ravenpaw 766 (1 year ago)
8====D
Airsoft Fisheries (1 year ago)
MrGrizlis hehe I do more 👀👅
Audrey C plays mc (1 year ago)
MrGrizlis ew focus on school
Tasedeon24 (2 years ago)
wow okay im 12 so i have 4 years until i can date
pizza is life (1 month ago)
Guys again it not about your age is how mature u are and just beacuse when your 16 doesn't mean oh I'm 16! I'm get a boyfriend or girlfriend wait for the right person and chosse wisely and talk to your parents for advice:)
X EclipseWolf (4 months ago)
same lmao
Sophia's World! (4 months ago)
Same
Lielle Efrati (8 months ago)
Me too ....
Shadow 1159 (9 months ago)
Lol
Julien Skates (2 years ago)
So I told a girl I liked her then next year she said she liked me and now she's my gf but I'm not a immature 12 year old I care for her I would take a bullet I thinks she's perfect we have a lot in commen we hang out and I really like her . So I think it doesn't matter about age it matters about maturity but I mean 2 month olds should et be dating XD
That Quik Mats Nerd (3 months ago)
you seem like a good guy respect for you
Josh (5 months ago)
My nigga you wouldn’t take a bullet, trust me it’s one of the worst pains ever.
Scammer Hunters (8 months ago)
Julien Skates I was the same when I was 12
Mona Moore (1 year ago)
I swear 21 is the best
Decoy Master (1 year ago)
20 for boy and still waiting :3
Claudia Carson (2 years ago)
I am 12 and I have a boyfriend 😜
Lilzs Lod (1 year ago)
Marissa Timichelk how do you know ?
EST Love (2 years ago)
Marissa Timichelk by Drake haha lol just kidding
Nisser Anderogregy (2 years ago)
Claudia Carson It's fake love.
Sub 2 WillNE (2 years ago)
Most of my friends started dating when they were like 8 and they were kissing at the age of 8 to.One of my friends even necked a boy.
Pinky Fantasy (1 year ago)
LaurenTheGymnast WTF
Denis 0: (1 year ago)
GymnastForLife for me it was since kindergarten
Assassin 0207110 (2 years ago)
I am 12 and I'm going to start kindergarten dating it means like hold hands only and like hug got on like a date to the movies ya stuff like that I guess
Ally Playz (9 months ago)
TripleSupreme TMI. Nobody needs to know
bee (9 months ago)
Strait F.I.A.Y that’s just gross
Frostylmao (1 year ago)
Whatcha talking about 🅱️ I'm 12 and got pussy already. Not even kidding.
Belen Bonilla (1 year ago)
Assassin 0207110 that's ok
PotatoSplit (2 years ago)
lel
Zach Meisner (2 years ago)
A lot of people in the comments are very irresponsible
Kwadaja Munroe (11 months ago)
Zach Meisner how would you know?
Jesse Huggins (2 years ago)
I'm 3 years old and fucking on the daily
Alliana watches (1 year ago)
HAHAHHA
Julien Skates (2 years ago)
Jesse Huggins XD
Asoka Tano (2 years ago)
I'm 12 and I'm dating I 💚 u Kendal 😘
Ben Weiss (2 years ago)
I'll stick to my anime body pillow ❤️😘❤️😘❤️ (this is a joke for y'all numb nuts)
ashley sanchez (2 years ago)
aw thanks
VanillaBH126 (2 years ago)
My mom allows me to have "kindergarten" relationships. Which means holding hands, the basics. No kissing,of course no sex and nothing like that. Because I am quite young. (Double digits though)
Calista Kolozsvari (2 years ago)
Carmella .James double digits means anything from 10-99 lol
Country Girl24 (3 years ago)
I am 14 I have a crush but anyway I don't want sex
Kerry Lea (3 years ago)
I'm 12 and I have a boyfriend 😘
Jetayy (2 years ago)
+Ben Weiss yea?
Ben Weiss (2 years ago)
+Jetayy lmao you act like she just said that she sucked him off in the locker room of the gym
Jetayy (2 years ago)
You are very sick. You should enjoy your childhood first because you will regret the consequences when you are old.
graham (3 years ago)
its not all about sex kids
Kwadaja Munroe (11 months ago)
graham yh i know
Attila Esquilin (4 years ago)
I'm 13 and I have a boyfriend
Kwadaja Munroe (11 months ago)
Me too
Meili Thornton (4 years ago)
Congragulations
maria smith (4 years ago)
In kindergarten this cute girl came up and said your my boyfriend and in my mind i thought cool the only 5 year old dating and now im 10 and yes im using my grandmas gmail
Bellana Flaherty (5 years ago)
you guys r stupid I mean really stupid..... let the parents decide and let the kids decide the thing that ruins kids is when parents are snooping in there business
Brandon Acosta (5 years ago)
I am 14 year old boy looking for relationship not sex sex if for married people.
xXMediaTrix (6 months ago)
Brandon Acosta you’re now 18!
James Moore SR. (5 years ago)
*mature
DaveGhost RiderKiller (5 years ago)
im 13 and my mom let me date cause i am machure
Nico Castro (9 months ago)
Real “machure” ppl don’t write “machure”
jayden johnson (1 year ago)
DaveGhost RiderKiller you cant even spell mature
Tyler McDonald (1 year ago)
Max Shen some people have trouble spelling
Pinky Fantasy (1 year ago)
Max Shen Sooo true..😂😂😂😂
Max LA (2 years ago)
DaveGhost RiderKiller Not mature enough to spell. So take this L.
yuriythebest (8 years ago)
wait this isn't a theOnion sketch? next....

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